The Secret to Lasting Change
You want to make a change. Maybe you need to. You tell yourself that over and over again. But, neither of those will make it happen. No, the answer to making change happen lies between the two: in...
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Fables of the Deconstruction
Let me tell you a little something about brass tacks. Though the origin of the phrase, “Let’s get down to brass tacks” is unclear, there are a couple of theories: It refers to the tacks used both...
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Standards and Practices
“Well, that’s not how I would do it.” How I hate that phrase. Where does it come from? Ego? Lack of trust? Or something else? Why do we get not only in our own way, but in the way of others we want...
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Change? It’s in the Wind.
Change is a funny thing. It’s a constant state — and so is our fight against it. We’re wired to fight change. And yet, the more we fight — the more we resist — the more painful change can be. (Stress,...
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The Roads Not Taken
What if, at each decision point in your life, some other version of yourself took the road not taken? What if there were thousands — millions – of other paths with other versions of You walking them?...
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Me, Myself, and I
One of the curious things about our brains is how conflicting thoughts, and conflicting feelings, can coexist. Sometimes peacefully, sometimes not. How can two perceptions of ourselves be at odds with...
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The Tyranny of Should
• There’s a tyrant in your life, six letters long. It oppresses you, controls you — and you give it power constantly: Should. Oh, how I hate that word. It’s insidious. It’s laden with judgment, yet...
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Are you asking for my advice?
Then read on. If not, enjoy this. I have a few rules that govern my life. I usually summarize them as “Be useful, be thoughtful, be passionate, be kind,” but there are any number of more specific...
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